huft

not comfortable anymore for whats happen between us. why?
1) kita jarang ketemu, kalian udh sama2 tiap hari. i want to spend time just be with you, not with three person at the same table.. it makes me act to be someone else

2) we had different concern now. i think about my job and also you. it's not wrong, but when we have no care anymore about each other i think we better have a formal relationship

3) km terlalu baik sama orang lain. tlg jaga jarak, not showing like you can give yourself to anyone who wants. please stop saying "kita bertiga satu kamar aja" i know thats a joke, but please stop saying that joke. i dont like to see you like a playboy.

4) honestly aku sebel kalo tiap2 janjian "pura2 ga kontak ya"... bukan berarti pgn di hub sm km terus, but sometimes its okay to take less part. sekalii aja dr 5 event km bs bilang "coba saya yg tanya". kalo terus2an dihub via pihak ketiga aku ngerasa terlalu undercover banget.

5) aku bosen. aku mau orang yang bs ngasih kepastian lebih. pasti sayang, pasti profesional, dan ngasih kepastian kedepannya mau ngapain aja sama aku dan cuma sama aku, ga pake orang lain.

marriage dream

i want to marry someone who loves me much, not only by physical but also spiritual. we'll walk together into a better person day by day, become an Allah servant till jannah do our family.

PR

hari ini jleb banget ngomongin lembur2 sama pacal. "iya kamu ga usah lembur meskipun temen2 km lembur.. carol juga pules2 aja tuh padahal temen2nya bagadangan"

yang gue tangkep:
1. carol so wow.. pinter abis ni orang
2. gue sampah.. sampe segede gini aja gue masih begadang

pesan moral:
1. jangan mau ikutan hidup ga bener
2. tiap orang punya PR buat dirinya sendiri, jd jgn ngerasa kurang dari si anu anu anu.. kurang ya biarin aja, yg penting PR kita accomplished.
3. semangat ya sayang, jangan nyerah, you can do it. i love you..

answer to my pray

once i fell in love with the guy

he's powerful, charismatic, smart, independent, and craving me like crazy.

he has lots of lack, but the biggest lack he ever have is he might can't be mine forever.

he's not always make me smile, but correctly he's the reason why i smile, feeling grateful, and safe.

sometimes he made me mad, or cry.. but i might be not happier when he's not around.

it's hard to hold the feeling that i miss someone like him (or him exactly) so much. i hope someday we have our own happy day..

why do you choose me?

frequently asked question at the first time were getting together. hard to explain.. why you or me and why not others?

we walking day by day and i realize..

we're simply found what each other wants

a girl who's craving for powerful and independent man

a man who wants a sweet mysterious girl to be with him

real couple

pgn deh ngomong sama co gw. bahwa gw kangen love talk sama dia. bicarain hal yang ga melulu ttg kerjaan/duit/berita.

gw pgn bilang bahwa g w tau gw bego tp gw sayang beneran sama dia, bukan krn dia selalu ngasih gw sesuatu, tp tanpa sesuatu itu pun gw udah sayang banget sama dia. i want he knows that i'm his best lovers, he don't need to see someone else

cita2 gw

pinter masak

mudah2an suatu hari gw bs kayak mereka

temen
nilai bagus
uang cukup
orang yg sayang sm gw tp sholeh
anak yg sayang sm gw tp sholeh dan mandiri juga

what kind of person are you?

still cant imagine how someone i will fall in love with. why i trust him? why i wont to be without him? why i can be that loyal to him? what part of him i love? why should be him and not someone else? how we will live? how we make our relationship blessed and happy while we're loyal to each other? why we're never bored to each other? can i hold him forever? will he stay for me and still be my best friend at dunya and jannah?

the man i will married

I,
married a (rich) man
who supports my deepest talents
a dream to be a great bussiness role
hold me tight
and never let me go

kangen

maybe i'm a kind of confussion girls. i can't have too much attention but don't want to let you go either. such a contradiction.

kalo dibilang gue bosen sama pacar gue yaaah iya kali ya? atau gara2 pacar gue refuse buat nikah sama gue jd ya males aja gitu ketemu dia, bales message2nya sayang2an sama dia. tapi di sisi lain butuh dia juga sih. im afraid that i can't live without him

so i made distance dengan pamit mengairplane mode hp gue. cowok gue pernah protes pernah bodo amat juga. kalo protes ya gue bilang gue bakal kabarin kemanapun gue pergi, but please save your prayer on your heart, ga usah ditulis. intinya gue pengen lewatin bbrp saat tanpa kehadiran dia.

akhirnya lumayaaaan balikan ala drama2 korea. kangen itu perlu. tapi tetep aja ada yang ganjel..

somebody please propose me..

will you marry?

iyaaaaaaaa skrg mauuuu

lagi iri2nya liat orang2 pada kawin

padahal udah tau juga sih kawin tuh ya gitu, ujung2nya pasti drama juga

tapi dipikir2 ga ada salahnya juga ya dicoba, at least udah coba

udah berusaha bikin diri sendiri bahagia. kalo nanti ga bahagia yaaa.. putusin aja? hahahaha.. gue ga bs bayangin how to keep a relationship. dulu iya, skrg i dont know how to

krn yang udah2 kalo pasutri berantem mah yang rugi cewek

gambling tapi harus tp pengen tp takut..
ah...

belajar dari kesalahan

gue selalu nangis tiap liat tesis gue

sampah abis

belom dosen gue yang horor mampus

tapi pas gue liat lagi gimana gue jualan yaaa hmm..

nobody's perfect

tiap orang PASTI punya kesalahan dan harus belajar dari kesalahannya

jadi ya syukuri aja apa yang ada, jangan pernah nyerah, kalo gagal coba lagi, kalo berhasil give thanks ke semua orang yang selama ini udah bantu mati2an

orang punya usaha, tuhan yg tentuin..

kangen sama diri sendiri

gue pengen bisa memenangkan sesuatu. pgn menang terus iya juga sih..

dibilangnya gue netingan
iya bener sih

pacal juga kayaknya stress sama sifat gue yang netingan.. aduh tapi da gimanaaa..

gw orangnya bener2 ga bs percaya sm orang lain. kalo liat ada cowok ngejar ceweknya banget tuh gue iri. kapan gue punya pacar kyk gitu (padahal pacar gue yg skrg baiknya udah amit2. kekurangannya cuma 1: ga akan nikah sama gue dan gue bingung mau nikah sama siapa)

yah.. syukuri aja apa yang ada deh non..

my guy

1) what to do to attract me
smart, tidy, skilfull, powerful, strong

2) what to do to make my attention
kind, polite, but friendly-segmented

3) what to do to make me fall
communicative, make me be the only one

4) what to do to make me say yes
do private talk, being serious, ask me to be with you

5) what to do to make me happy and fall over again
knows my favorites, make them as a surprise

6) how to make physical contact
only tight hug and kiss forehead first

7) what to do to make me stay
stay

8) never do this to me
betrayed, lies, look the other one

9) guy's personality plus
kind, friendly, honest to me, never stop trying to be the best

10) i do love and play music. am i desired to have spouse like me?
nope. a guy with same taste of music is really enough. i mostly don't like guys with music instrument

11) a guy is romantic when
less talk more actions most surprise

12) things of guy i can't resist
a great photographer, music choicer, boss at the construction field, a chef

101 date with me
1) loves romantic things?
pretty sure

2) flowers
white casablanca, roses. romantic bouquet/rustic bouquet

3) gift
jewellry, perfumes, book

4)movies
basicly loves drama, comedy, and motion pictures. okay with action, big no to shootgun, bad choice about horror. (anyway i never have a boyfie who loves horror or drama. they loves masculin action, so i can't imagine how can i watch a horror movie together. i think its stupid, except it's a box office movie)

5) romantic activity
cook, dinner, and kissing

6) sedan/jeep/suv
sedan

7) luxury/down to earth
LUXURY

8) hotel/resort
resort

9) city/beach/mountain
beach

10) 3 favorite destination
swiss, maldives, marrakesh/turkey

11) formal/casual
casual but tidy

12) dishes
european/japanese

13) favorite guy's perfume
soap-smell

14) favorite guy's color
monochrome, red, a bit blue

15) big-no-guy
guy with long hair, anti-grooming, random sleepers

16) cafe/movie/festival/restaurant/outdoor
love it all

17) mission at date
connect each other

18) mission at marriage
stay happily ever after

love n need

hal yang harus dijaga dari love itu setia aja sih menurut gw. jangan bitchy. kalo mau bitchy ya ga usah punya hubungan.

gw sebagai cewek gw merasa gw butuh perlindungan. khususnya melindungi diri dari mulut2 yang jahat sama gw, esp yg suka ngatain gw culun, bego, ga laku, atau jelek. kalo melindungi diri dari cowok2 ga bener itu udah super pasti banget. cowok buaya mah jumlahnya ratusan dan gw udah males ngelayaninnya. mungkin kalo muncul lagi mau lsg gw semprot baygon aja biar metong sekalian, cape. ada paaangan juga lumayan ya ternyata buat support system. ketika ada orang ini gw merasa gw punya temen diskusi yg gw banget, yang bener2 jadi supporter waktu gw lg down and have a big doubt. keberadaan dia jadi salah satu alasan buat survive krn gw ngerasa salah satu cara buktiin bahwa gw cinta dia adalah gimana caranya bikin dia bahagia.

jadi gimana caranya bikin dia bahagia?

traktir, cantik, berprestasi, mandiri, be number one.

jadi gue sangat berharap orang spt itu akan ada di hidup gue. sekarang dan selamanya.

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